The History of Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day originated from the story of Saint Valentine, a priest in ancient Rome. Emperor Claudius II banned marriages for soldiers, believing unmarried men were better fighters. Valentine defied this order by secretly performing weddings.
He was arrested and imprisoned, where he wrote letters signed “Your Valentine” to support and encourage others. Valentine was executed and his legacy as a symbol of love and devotion inspired the celebration of Valentine’s Day in his honor.
A few cunning traders sensed a business opportunity. It wasn’t enough for them to see Valentine’s actions simply as an example of charity and how to treat each other. They began selling overpriced roses and greeting cards adorned with poetic phrases like, “Your eyes shine like stars,” or, “Eternity with you wouldn’t be enough, but let’s start with forever.”
Oddly enough, instead of fostering more love among people, Valentine’s Day gave rise to a culture of mutual expectations. Couples began arguing, not about love, but about whether their gifts were extravagant enough or their gestures sufficiently grand. The day, meant to bring people closer, often sparked conflict instead.
Whether this commercialization aligns with the spirit of Saint Valentine is highly doubtful. After all, he was a man who risked everything for love, not for profit or societal pressures.
Perhaps it’s time to rethink the way we celebrate love. Instead of dedicating just one day to show affection and appreciation, maybe we should strive to love and value those around us daily.
To conclude with a meaningful and poetic phrase: True love knows no calendar!